“If babies could think and talk, I wonder whose words would be the truth. The baby’s or the parent. Since this isn’t the case, why take anyone’s word for it or enable any side without the courage to obtain all the facts of the matter for the best interest of the child. Why not have the courage to get both in the room/on a call to observe who refuses to cooperate & who calmly shows all the receipts.”
This document serves as a formal record of the kidnapping and parental alienation of a male child from his father and paternal family. If you encounter Olutomi Afowobi, please contact local law enforcement immediately, as there is an outstanding arrest warrant for her. Tarrant County Case #324-723333-22.
At times men do not get the opportunity to provide the facts because the ears are immediately captured by lies that make some of the smartest of people a believer without proof.
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Above: This was in response to me leaving her in December 2020. Laying the victimhood groundwork to prepare for the needed help and financial assistance that comes with playing the role. Notice the consistent flip flopping derived around when she does or doesn’t get her way.
Below: December 28, 2021: I did not expect that this would be the last Holiday & Birthday I spent with Soul. Luckily It was with my entire family. I had to bring her with me if I wanted to take Soul to see my family. My family was not aware of my separation from her. That would not have changed how they treated her and her eldest son like family. They have not had the privilege of seeing or hearing from Soul in almost 3 years.
Below: Soul would often wound up sick when he is left with her. And contracted Hand Foot and Mouth disease less than a month after I filed a CPS case for negligence due to him being in a unsanitary environment that developed once I moved out.
Above audio: January 13, 2022: Olutomi states she hopes to reconcile our relationship while I HAD NO DESIRE. Her voice, confidently proclaim she had no fear of me. It is notable that I voluntarily left her the first of December and paid the rent that month once I could no longer stand to be around her. She claimed I was bitter about a split up I initiated not to mention paid following month’s rent while having to pay to relocate with nothing to gain? Listen closely as she states I’ve never been “this cruel” to her. Play it over and over and you will learn and hear the psychological manipulation as you key in on her word choices. Once I was no longer blinded by the love of my son, I became cruel in her eyes. That cruelty consisted of me shutting down the gas lighting, saying less as possible or not speaking due to her constant tendency of twisting my words or using them against me, not letting her have her way when it was inconvenience to me or counter intuitive to the well-being of me and my child, not accepting her excuses , and no longer assuming she had no awareness of her behavior or the slight passive aggressive actions she would express. This was me in mid-November when my son could no longer keep me to stay putting up with her behavior.
Above: February, 2022: The above is an agreement to what I hoped would be a solution to my discontent with how she parented. I understand that people parent different but when that important conversation had already been had and you’ve been deceived into believing you both were on the same page, you’ll understand better. The agreement was never forced or expected. Only a trial that was intended to substantiate the ongoing assistance I had been providing her, should she be truly willing to accept it. It was last attempt to find any comfort or hope in Olutomi’s co-parenting abilities through offering financial incentives, though this effort proved unsuccessful. It was at this point that I informed her I would no longer be financially responsible for her, emphasizing that she would need to find a way to support herself, as she had enjoyed the luxury of being a stay-at-home mom since I learned of the conception of our child. However, I reassured her that I would ensure our child’s needs were always met and that they would not want for anything. Soon after calls to initiate time with my son were not answered nor returned. It was only when she had something to do, she would randomly send a nice text early in the day and later follow up with asking me if I could get my child AND her child. I gladly accepted taking in only my child and she denied me because I wouldn’t take in her child.
View me as you wish but I challenge anyone that enables her behavior or believes her to request prior proof of her claimed abusive/poor/negative treatment towards her or our child pre-December. I know it’s hard for coke heads to critically think so this isn’t for those who took her in. There should not have been any engagement, or any forced off topic discussions if she should have been done with me as much as I was with her. Being cordial and still financially helping her because she was the mother of my child was the extent of my grace. But once you continue to provoke me, trash my character, and interfere with the relationship of my child who is the reason I compromised and persisted to keep you in my life in the first place, I reserve the right to care less about other people’s feelings of how I legally pursuit to get custody of my child.
Above: 8 Months pregnant with child. There’s a justification though. Mommy brains she’d call it, as I’d once in a while stumble on these embarrassingly dark post that did not reflect my character and kept her hidden to everyone outside of my family. Never thought the ugliness I requested that she delete be used as evidence of her character.
These posts are “PUBLIC”. This request should be made in private with only close friends and family. This is cringy, ignorant and invites predators. Your child doesn’t even know how to fully talk or express himself at this time. This ought to be concerning to any parent to see this when it comes to their child.
This is the “friend” that stated in dfps case that Tomi’s home was always in order when everyone else even Tomi herself stated that she was disorganized and hoarded more than her living quarters could handle.
Asking for drugs online during pregnancy. Past due rent after I moved out and attest to the factual reason for moving.
She pressed me to come on the road with me while I worked in Atlanta. I was not aware it was so that she could get a passport since her visa had been expired since 2017. I had no idea that she went into that establishment and lied to make it look like my child belonged to her separated husband and lied about risk of homelessness when I took care of her. During this time I had already been working with my resources to assist her with obtaining her green card.
If you made it this far, hopefully you’ve noticed that I have not expressed any gender bias and understand that there are good mothers and good fathers. So, I ask that you always remain neutral in order to be in the right frame of mind to gain clarity, truth, and revelation. Thank you for stopping by.
Lastly, do not let anyone tell you there is a wrong way to go about accessing your child when they aren’t experiencing what you are. Those people lack courage, love and can’t imagine the child being more important than themselves so they insert “themselves” as your opposition into the picture. They offer no help or support. Do not communicate with them on the subject and especially mind your child around them once you’ve won.
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