“Since babies can’t talk, we ought to be more careful how we arrive at the truth, for their sake. Less we suffer the haunting reminder of the part we played when it all comes to light”

This document serves as a formal record of the kidnapping and parental alienation of a male child from his father and paternal family. If you witness Olutomi Afowobi, please contact local law enforcement immediately, as there is a warrant for her arrest. & I have primary custody per Tarrant County Case #324-723333-22.

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I will let her post speaks for themselves.

Above: Her post in response to me leaving her in December 2020. My son could not make me stay to put up with what I saw to come once her mask came off. Notice the consistent flip flopping derived around when she does or doesn’t get her way.

Below: December 28, 2021: Last visit to Chicago for Soul to experience his paternal family. He was not allowed to go if she could not go, even though at the time I was no longer involved with her and annoyed by her close presence, I sucked it up for my family’s sake.

Below: Soul would often wound up sick after he is left alone with her. And contracted Hand Foot and Mouth disease less than a month after I filed a CPS case for negligence due to him being in a unsanitary environment that developed once I was no longer around to maintain the upkeep.

Above audio: January 13, 2022: Her voice.

Above: February, 2022: The above is an agreement to what I hoped would be a solution to my discontent with how she parented. I understand that people parent different but when that important conversation had already taken place and you’ve been deceived into believing you both were on the same page, you’ll understand better. The agreement was not forced or expected. Only a trial that was intended to substantiate the ongoing assistance I had been providing her, should she be truly willing to accept it. It was last attempt to find any comfort or hope in her co-parenting abilities through offering financial incentives, though this effort proved unsuccessful. It was at this point that I informed her I would no longer be financially responsible for her, emphasizing that she would need to find a way to support herself, as she had enjoyed the luxury of being a stay-at-home mom since I learned of the conception of our child. However, I reassured her that I would ensure our child’s needs were always met on all levels relating to me and that they would not want for anything. Soon after, calls to initiate time with my son were not answered nor returned. It was only when she had something to do, she would randomly send a nice text early in the day and later follow up with asking me if I could get my child AND her child. I gladly accepted taking in only my child and she denied me because I wouldn’t take in her child. Being cordial and still financially helping her because she was the mother of my child was the extent of my grace. But once you continue to provoke me, trash my character, and interfere with the relationship of my child who is the reason I compromised and persisted to keep you in my life in the first place, I reserve the right to have nothing to do with her and other people’s feelings of how I legally pursuit to gain custody of my child. Being cordial and still financially helping her because she was the mother of my child was the extent of my grace. But once she continued to provoke me, trash my character, and interfere with the relationship of my child who is the reason I compromised and persisted to be around to help her in the first place, I reserve the right to have nothing to do with her and other people’s feelings of how I legally pursuit to gain custody of my child. If we can’t do whats best for our child together, and she won’t do it alone, then I will do it myself.

Sometimes the best key witness for ourselves is us. The past is only irrelevant when we could observe the improvement rather than the deterioration.

Above: attitude during 2020 pregnancy. Angry, Violent, Insulting, Insensitive, Seeking drugs.

Above: These posts are “PUBLIC”. This request should be made in private with only close friends and family. This is scary for a non-custodial parent to witness. It displays negligence and invites predators. A toddler is vulnerable at this stage and requires supervision from preferably family, and most importantly a protective father.

This is her “friend” that stated in DFPS case that Olutomi’s home was always in order when everyone else’s documented statement even Tomi’s herself stated that she was disorganized, unkempt, and hoarded more than her living quarters could handle. I hope this girl inserts herself into our case and say whatever she chooses under oath.

If you made it this far, Soul & I want to thank you. And hopefully you’ve noticed that I have not expressed any gender bias and understand that there are good mothers and good fathers. So, I ask that you always remain neutral in order to be in the right frame of mind to gain clarity, truth, and revelation. Thank you for stopping by. Lastly, do not let anyone tell you there is a wrong way to go about accessing your child when they aren’t experiencing what you are. Those people lack courage, love and can’t imagine the child being more important than themselves so they insert “themselves” as your opposition into the picture. They offer no help or support. Do not communicate with them on the subject and especially mind your child around them once you’ve won.